Starting Primary School Checklist – what are children expected to know?

Starting Primary School Checklist – what are children expected to know?

Posted by EYR Team on 23rd Jun 2025

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If you have a little one starting school in September you might have a lot of questions: “What does my child need to know?” “What can I do to prepare them?” “Is my child ready for school?” This is all perfectly normal and the purpose of this blog is to answer some of these questions to make you feel overall more prepared to send your little one off in September. 

Research has shown that preparing children for school in a positive manner has a significant impact, not only on their happiness through their time in their new setting but also on how they view transitions in the future.

What should children know before starting school?

Please use this as a guideline only. It is important to remember that all children are different and will develop at different rates to others.  

Self-care and independence

child washing their hands

  • I can use a knife and fork
  • I can open my own packed lunch
  • I can button and unbutton my own clothes
  • I can put my shoes and socks on and take them off independently
  • I can be away from my parents
  • I can look after my belongings
  • I can wash and dry my hands independently
  • I can use the toilet independently
  • I know when to wash my hands
  • I can wipe my own nose

How can a caregiver support self-care and independence?

  • Talk to children about the importance of good hygiene in relation to a variety of scenarios for example hygiene when using the toilet or blowing their nose
  • Create opportunities for independence e.g. letting them use the bathroom by themselves
  • Teach your little ones how to use and care for their toys and belongings and trust them to do so independently
  • Give lots of opportunities for practice e.g practice opening their lunchbox and eating properly
  • Encourage independent efforts and be there to support as and when needed but not take over e.g when a child holds their arm out for you to put their coat on, encourage them to try themselves
  • Implement a structured routine at home for both morning and night

Social skills and playing with others

 children taking turns when playing

  • I can share toys and take turns
  • I can play with others
  • I can interact with other children
  • I can be sensitive to others’ feelings

How can a caregiver encourage children's social skills?

  • Provide activities that promote turn taking for example board games
  • Encourage children to play with other children from different backgrounds and be inclusive
  • Choose toys and books that will encourage children to express their feelings and question them on feelings of other people or characters.
  • Explain why it is important to listen when others are speaking

Maths and counting

children counting numbers

  • I can practise counting with objects
  • I can say number rhymes and play counting games
  • I can recognise some numbers

How can caregivers encourage early maths?

  • Use number language in a variety of situations
  • Provide number labels for children to use
  • Model and encourage use of mathematical language. For example ask children questions like how many toys will fit in this box?

Communication, language and literacy

child holding a pencil

  • I can experiment with different shaped scribbles
  • I can practice holding a pencil correctly
  • I can recognise my own name when written down
  • I am looking at picture books and engaging in stories
  • I can follow instructions
  • I can ask for help when I am unsure
  • I can communicate with adults with words and feelings

How to support communication, language and literacy 

  • Notice and encourage the marks children make
  • Include opportunities for writing during other activities
  • Model writing for a purpose e.g. writing a shopping list
  • Focus on meaningful text such as your child’s name or letters
  • Read stories that children already know and pause frequently to give them the opportunity to read and associate the words they know with the text

 Classroom “behaviour”

children with their hands in the air to ask questions

  • I can ask questions
  • I can sit still for short periods of time
  • I can talk about myself, my needs and my feelings

How can caregivers prepare children for appropriate classroom behaviour?

  • Try using sand timers to help extend concentration for children who find this tricky
  • Name and talk about a wide range of feelings and emotions
  • Model how you label and manage your feelings

What will my child be learning in Reception?

MathsThis will primarily focus on learning about numbers and how to work with them. They might use a number line to help them add, subtract and count.

Science/Understanding the WorldYour little ones will be using IT equipment to find out information and will be being asked to observe, reason and discuss.

Literacy: Your child will begin storytelling and writing by starting with communication, role play, listening and show and tell activities. They will begin the process of learning letters, high frequency words and will be taught phonics to segment and blend for reading and writing.

Some final tips

Whilst this blog outlines lots of areas in which you can prepare your child for school, it is important to note:

  1. Your child does NOT need to be able to read, write or do sums before starting school
  2. The most important thing is to relish the time before school by having fun!
  3. Try not to stress your little one out with lots of talk about school and equally, don’t over hype it
  4. Try walking or driving past the school often to give your little one some context and allow it to become a familiar building
  5. If you would like some more activities to try with your little ones to get them "school ready" then check out our previous blog "How can I support my child to be school ready?"